Meet Mary Henderson: A Fitness Industry Veteran
We’re excited to share wisdom from Mary Henderson, a seasoned fitness professional whose personal training career has helped shape the lives of countless individuals striving for a healthier lifestyle. With decades of experience in the fitness industry, Mary’s journey offers invaluable insights into what it takes to become a successful personal trainer.
Her story began with a single client—a fifty-year-old mother hoping to transform her life. That first experience sparked a passion for personal training, leading Mary to become a certified personal trainer known for her dynamic training programs, innovative workout routines, and client-centered approach. She doesn’t just focus on strength training and weight loss—she helps clients build sustainable fitness routines, emphasizing proper form, nutrition, and mindset.
Now, Mary is sharing her expertise to guide aspiring and new personal trainers. In this guest blog, she highlights the importance of communication skills, adaptability, and lifelong learning in the personal training industry. She stresses the power of client feedback, the need to communicate effectively, and how the best trainers build lasting relationships with their clients.
“Personal training can be a very rewarding and satisfying profession. It increases one’s knowledge of the human body, and it develops new friendships, all while meeting financial needs. It can also be intimidating at first, but as you gain experience, that will fade.” — Mary Henderson
Join us as Mary shares her personal trainer tips for becoming a great personal trainer and growing a thriving personal training business!
Mastering Effective Communication as a Personal Trainer
One of the most overlooked skills in personal training is effective communication. You may know all about exercise science, but if you can’t explain movements clearly or understand a client’s goals, you’ll struggle to retain clients. Learning to communicate effectively is just as important as knowing proper form or training methods.
- Struggling with common client questions? Here’s a guide on how to answer frequently asked client questions with confidence.
- Want to improve your soft skills? A successful trainer knows that human psychology plays a huge role in coaching. Learn about the soft skills every trainer should develop.
Building strong relationships with clients and understanding their fitness level, workout preferences, and mindset will help you motivate and retain them in the long run.
The Journey to becoming a Personal Trainer
I remember my first personal training client. She was a fifty-year-old mother of three teenage boys who had no previous experience in the gym. She didn’t know much about nutrition, and her husband wanted her to lose weight. That was more than twenty years ago.
A Veteran’s First Steps
I had been a group fitness instructor and a director in charge of the group fitness program in a boutique gym for several years. Though I already taught all the group fitness modalities and had all the associated certifications, my passion for health and fitness only grew. I decided to step out of standard group fitness into the personal training realm to grow as a person and expand my repertoire.
After some intense studying, I successfully completed my personal training certification. My passion for fitness spurred me to learn everything I could. I wanted to help people find the joy of moving and moving well.
An Exciting New Challenge
Personal training is very different from group fitness. I now had to assess and write programs, not choreography. I needed to understand how the muscular system functions in relation to the whole body in order to write a balanced workout in tune with my client’s individual needs.
I needed to monitor progress and to know how and when to progress or regress an exercise. It was daunting at first, but practicing, finding a mentor, asking questions, and having humility allowed me to become a successful, sought-after trainer.
Taking Advantage of Experience
Having a mentor and being able to take constructive criticism was necessary. I needed to be willing to learn and to realize that I didn’t know everything just because I passed the basic personal training certification!
The facility that I worked at had a good mentorship program. I would shadow experienced professionals with their clients, listen to what they said, and observe how they trained. I would ask questions.
How Does A Personal Trainer Gain Experience?
Gaining experience is necessary for any good personal trainer wanting to refine their skills and increase their marketability in the fitness industry. Below are several methods for gaining experience and elevating your status to successful personal trainer:
- Intern with Established Personal Trainers: Find a mentor or other fitness professionals within networks like the American Council on Exercise and learn first the ins and outs of elite personal training.
- Work Across Various Fitness Settings: Secure a role in a rehabilitation or similar facility to understand the particulars of training clients with specific health conditions, increasing your ability to personalize workouts for a diverse client base.
- Pursue Continuous Education and Certifications: Earn your personal trainer certification and certifications in different fitness trends or expand your knowledge in established practices like exercise science, certified strength training or sports-specific conditioning.
- Join Professional Fitness Networks: Participate in events hosted by fitness industry leaders to network and learn from some of the best trainers in the field.
- Use Online Platforms to Train Clients: Offer virtual training sessions to attract clients globally, expand your client base, and showcase your flexible communication skills.
- Engage in Community Fitness Programs: Organize free outdoor training sessions to demonstrate your commitment to health and fitness and to attract clients through public engagement.
- Create Educational Content: Create workout videos or write articles on nutrition and routines that help clients understand the science behind their fitness goals.
- Implement a Professional Development Plan: Set specific, measurable goals for expanding your services or improving client satisfaction, and track your achievements over time.
- Collect and Use Client Feedback: Use surveys or discussions after workouts to gather insights on client experiences, which can help refine your training approach and improve your effectiveness.
- Stay Informed About Health Trends: Read industry publications and attend seminars to learn about new fitness trends that could benefit your clients and boost your training methods.
- Refine your business approach – Learn how to implement liability waivers to protect your personal training business.
By adopting these practices, you not only develop your skills as a personal fitness trainer but also make sure that you deliver top-notch service and support to your clients. This dedication to excellence and ongoing personal growth sets you apart as a standout personal trainer, helping you build a successful and rewarding career in the long term.
Preparing for Success
When I had my own clients, I made sure that I was always prepared with my clients’ written workout plans. It provides a clear path, it’s professional, and it gives both the trainer and the client confidence. Do your homework. Know why you are choosing specific exercises for your client. Know where you’re going with your workout, not just for that one session but also for future sessions.
Your client knows when you are prepared. When you can explain how the current exercise is going to improve their fitness and how you will adapt the program to their progress, it lets the client know that you understand their current status and that you are interested in working as a team to meet their goals.
Choose Exercises Wisely
It’s important to choose exercises that you know intimately and that keep your client’s physical ability in mind. I made sure I could demonstrate every exercise that I asked my client to do. They imitate what they see. Stick with fundamental exercises when you’re just starting out. This will ensure your client can focus on form, minimizing the chance of injury, and you can easily monitor and adjust as needed.
Be prepared to scale the difficulty of the program. You can make an exercise accessible to beginners or challenging to veterans by adjusting movement trajectory or weight. As you gain experience, you can add more variety to your toolbox.
Make a Personal Connection
Have a smile on your face. Whether it’s the first time meeting your client or the 50th session, you set the pace and the atmosphere: make it one that supports your workout goals. Positive energy and drive are contagious!
Make sure your client knows you’re glad to be working with them. Get to know your client. Find out why their goals are important to them and learn to read them. What is their comfort level? How hard can you push them, or do you need to coach them gently?
Protecting Yourself and the Client
It’s important for both you and your client that you have well-defined and clear policies that govern your sessions. The surest way to minimize friction is for everyone to be on the same page when it comes to each person’s responsibilities.
For example, it is your responsibility to show up on time, prepare for the session, and support the client’s needs and growth. It is the client’s responsibility to show up to the session on time as well. It is their responsibility to be in a state to work out, to commit to the schedule, and to provide reasonable notice to the trainer if, for some reason, they can’t make it.
Think about your training policies and state them clearly up front. What is your cancellation policy, your no-show policy, and your late-to-session policy? Inevitably, you will need to charge a client for a missed session, so be sure they know in advance what your policies are. This prevents stress for both of you as the client knows how and what to expect if they need to cancel, and it ensures that you, as the trainer, are compensated for your time preparing, driving, and keeping your calendar open. Be consistent in how you enforce these policies.
What Are Some Other Ways To Keep Yourself And Clients Safe?
Protection for yourself and your clients is important in the personal training industry. Here’s a short list of strategies that will help keep clients and trainers protected:
- Obtain Professional Liability Insurance and General Liability Insurance – A client tweaks their back during a training session and blames your technique. Without personal trainer insurance, you could be on the hook for medical bills and legal fees.
- Have Clear and Detailed Waivers – A new client insists they have no injuries—then casually mentions knee surgery. A detailed waiver ensures you’re both on the same page before starting workout routines.
- Regularly Check Equipment – That stability ball might look fine, but what if it suddenly pops? Checking equipment keeps clients safe and prevents unexpected accidents.
- Have First Aid and CPR Certification – Midway through a group fitness class, someone collapses. Do you know what to do? CPR and First Aid certification could save a life.
- Be Well-Versed in Personal Safety Training – Knowing how to teach proper form, spot during lifts, and recognize injury risks ensures a safer training environment.
- Perform Client Screening and Assessments – A new client wants to “lose weight and get stronger,” but their fitness level assessment will determine the safest and most effective training program for them.
- Use Confidentiality Agreements – Clients share personal health struggles—confidentiality agreements build trust and show professionalism in your personal training business.
- Set Professional Boundaries – Late-night texts about fitness goals? Setting professional boundaries ensures clients respect your time while keeping your training career sustainable.
By implementing these practices, personal trainers provide a safe environment for their clients and protect themselves from potential legal issues, ensuring professional and secure working conditions.
Leave Them Feeling Good
When a session is complete, the client wants to feel that they’ve made progress. Encourage them to continue working on their weak points, point out improvements, and praise consistency. Remind them the two of you are working together. A failure to follow a nutrition plan or an exercise they just can’t seem to get isn’t failing you; it’s an opportunity for growth that, together, you can achieve.
Finally, begin and end your session on time and always thank them for their time spent with you. The more personable you are, the more likely they will continue with you and your program.
Final Thoughts: The Journey to Becoming a Great Personal Trainer
Becoming a successful personal trainer is more than just guiding clients through workout routines—it’s about transforming lives, including your own. Over the years, I’ve gained invaluable knowledge about exercise science, human psychology, and my own personal growth. And to think, it all started with a fifty-year-old mother of three looking to reclaim her healthy lifestyle.
While challenges will arise, success in the personal training industry comes down to three core principles:
- Prioritize your client’s needs – Whether it’s weight loss, strength training, or improving overall fitness, tailor your training methods to help them reach their fitness goals.
- Stay professional – From client feedback to proper form, professionalism builds trust and credibility in your personal training business.
- Never stop learning – The fitness industry is always evolving, from new fitness trends to continuing education. The best trainers stay ahead by expanding their knowledge and skills.
A career in personal training is not just rewarding—it’s life-changing. Whether you’re a new personal trainer or an experienced fitness professional, always strive to communicate effectively, build relationships, and grow alongside your clients. The journey is worth it!
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FAQs
What Qualities Define A Successful Personal Trainer?
A successful personal trainer exhibits excellent communication skills, a passion for helping others achieve their fitness goals, and a commitment to professional development. Being a certified personal trainer with an understanding of exercise, nutrition, and sports medicine is important. Great personal trainers understand, motivate and look to expand their client base through superior service and expertise.
How To Attract New Clients?
Attracting new clients involves savvy marketing, professional networking, and building a strong reputation in the fitness industry. Most personal trainers find success by sharing their unique training styles on social media, offering workshops or free training sessions, and relying on word-of-mouth from satisfied clients. It’s beneficial to be involved with fitness professional networks and certifications from recognized bodies like the American Council on Exercise.
What Skills Should Personal Trainers Have?
Some recommended skills are creativity in the workouts and nutrition plans, strong interpersonal and communication skills, and leading safe exercises with proper form. Successful trainers should have business management skills, especially if they operate as an independent contractor or business owner.
How To Keep Your Clients Motivated?
Set achievable goals, design different workout routines to keep them engaged and celebrate their progress! A certified personal trainer should encourage clients by creating a positive workout environment and continuously educating them on the benefits of maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Regular feedback and changing programs to fit the clients’ changing needs keeps motivation high.
What Ongoing Education Options Are Available For Fitness Professionals?
Personal trainers could study specialized certifications, such as certified strength and conditioning, or fitness nutrition. Workshops, webinars, and fitness conferences are excellent ways to stay informed and connect with other fitness experts.
What Should Personal Trainers Keep In Mind When Creating Workout Routines?
When developing workout routines, personal trainers should look at the client’s fitness goals, health background, and physical condition. It’s important to create balanced routines that include a mix of cardiovascular training, strength exercises, and flexibility work. Personal trainers must adjust these plans over time as the client progresses and their fitness levels change.
